The
Power of Three Little Words.
Some
of the most significant messages people deliver to one another often
come in just three words. When spoken or conveyed, those statements
have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore
relationships that have cooled. The following three-word phrases can
enrich every relationship.
I'LL BE THERE - Being there for another
person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present
for other people, important things happen to them and to us. We are
renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually.
'Being there' is at the very very core of civility.
I MISS YOU - Perhaps more marriages could
be salvaged and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said
to each other, "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells
partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.
I RESPECT YOU - Respect is another way
of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is
a true equal. It is a powerful way to affirm the importance of a relationship.
MAYBE YOU'RE RIGHT - This phrase is highly
effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions.
The flip side of "maybe you're right" is the humility of
admitting "maybe I'm wrong."
PLEASE FORGIVE ME - Many broken relationships
could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes
and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles
and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own he has been in
the wrong, which is but saying, in other words, that he is wiser today
than he was yesterday.
I
THANK YOU - Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy.
People
who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those
who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick
to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness.
On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely
constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude. |
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ON ME - "A friend is one who walks in when others walk
out," Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship;
it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those who are rich in
their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles
come, a good friend is there, indicating "you can count on me."
LET ME HELP - The best of friends see
a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they
can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.
I UNDERSTAND YOU - People become closer
and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and
understands them. Letting others know in so many little ways that
you understand him or her is one of the most powerful tools for healing
your relationship.
GO FOR IT - Some of your friends may
be non conformists, have unique projects and unusual hobbies. Support
them in pursuing their interests. Rather than urging your loved ones
to conform, encourage their uniqueness-everyone has dreams that no
one else has.
I suppose the 3 little words that you were expecting to see have to
be reserved for those who are special; that is
I LOVE YOU. (Bucuk...)
Have a great day loving yourself and loving your loved ones!
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